Friday, November 9, 2012

The reason for my craziness - My khushi!

It happens with everyone I suppose, you meet some "special" people for the very first time in your life and even in a very small conversation you have with them; it is impossible for you to help your self stop falling in love with them! Their aura is so strong and the positive energy that they carry with them and deliver when you interact with them makes you feel like having that person as an important member for the lifetime; be it as a partner or a friend or be it as any other relation, you just want them to be there with you! The same case happened with my first conversation with this sweet friend of mine, whom this blog is dedicated to; the person who is the reason behind the smile on my face, the craziness in my mind and the happiness in my heart; my sweet little crazy friend; khushboo. I would not be exaggerating by saying that I could divide my life with a fine line of separation, before and after I met her.

I do remember the first time I saw Khush, I could not help my self stop staring at her, mainly because of her fair skin, which the mechanical core companies based in Southern region of India lack for sure. I was somewhat happy to have seen a girl with whom I could communicate in my mother tongue and later become friends with and brag all about it; although it was a different case that it was my shyness because of which it took me three months after knowing her, to have finally spoken to her for the first time.

It was 17th Nov 2011, the day I talked to her for the first time; the day with great value and importance in my life; firstly, because of it being the day when I showed my passion, by playing my violin in front of strangers, (judges and other participants) for the first time; as a part of a successful audition for the annual event of our organization, Galaata and secondly because this was the day when I met two people who now, have irreplaceable place and respect in my heart. First, of course is the person who this blog is all about and the other; GD, who has always been there for me as my elder brother in my corporate journey!

It didn't take much time after our first conversation, from us to become this special in each other's life from being "just friends!". She is one of those special persons, for whom I feel proud using best as prefix with the word friends. I didn't even realize when I actually started calling her Khushi or Khush instead of Khushboo.

Khush has got such a personality that it would be pretty tough for anyone not to know her and get attracted towards her; she has infectious quality to make you fall in love with her. She is crazy and that's what I love the most about her, along with that killing smile on her face all the time, of course!! Attracted by her personality, I started searching for reasons of  meeting her or going to her work station which I mostly felt shy about, be it an issue with  a broken phone which I knew for sure would not be taken care by her or an excuse of not receiving an invitation letter, which I already might be having. Overall, I was and am the most disturbed victim of her infectious love for sure and I am getting crazier every passing day for her after knowing and exploring more and more about her!

It was she who requested the authorities to involve a second band for Galaata, and so it was because of her that I lived my dream! I played violin in front of thousands of people and that's the day since when I have an immortal respect for her in my heart!

It has become an usual habit for us to share everything with each-other, be it in form of some cheesy movies lines or the emotional conversations about family and friends; she has been my counselor, my sibling and my best friend, a complete package I have always been hungry for!

I don't know how she reads my mind and she is the person I approach or call when I am lonely or sad! I am running out of words to explain this special quality she possesses, that you talk to her for just 2 minutes and there is a smile on your face for the rest of the day. She calls me bachha, her kid, and I am so lucky to be cared by her, the way a mom cares for her child.



The Card Khush made for me when I was going onsite; she  is a brilliant quilling  artist as well!!

The bragging just doesn't stop here; she is an excellent cook, (which she always denies), an awesome artist, a creative potter and the zeal in her is always alive to learn new things; which sometimes make me jealous of her! She is an awesome drama-queen. (My mom, for sure, will always remember the mimicry she did in front of her of one of the characters in the comedy sitcoms when they met for the first time).

She is obviously the kind of daughter every parent prays for, A lovely wife to an amazing gentleman who in himself is an idle person and one of the most respected person in my life! I am just very lucky to have her as such an important person in my life. One bad influence, for sure, she has done on me is the level of assessment for selection of life partner for me has raised significantly after knowing her!

The first blog dedicated to the most important person in my life; whom, I didn't even realize since when, love the most!! Thank you god, for keeping my belief in love by giving such a nice friend in my life!! One thing for sure, and I say it with pride and confidence; if you can't fall in love with her, you definitely need to get your self checked up!!